
- Wedding party after mass at St. Patrick’s Church on Camp St. (Photo courtesy John Alwert Photography)
Hi Ya’ll! I got some of the best emails while I was gone for a couple of weeks, thank you if that applies to you! After a beautiful honeymoon on St. Thomas it’s so good to be home with my new husband Tyson Shinaut, in my new home, and back at WDSU.
Now, along with a few pictures just for fun, I have a few wedding consumer thoughts for you before I return to credit card rates, gas prices and contractor problems…
First, brides can be some nutty, nasty consumers. They could put filthy rich clowns getting bailouts to shame. I remember how many times I felt horrible for my seamstress as I heard bridezillas come in and out of the dress shop. The ladies who run these shops are angels going to heaven (The ones at mine were anyway, Bustles and Bows on Severn- they were fabulous! It’s owned by a Dominican Grad, go figure:). How those employees keep smiles on their faces for every bride is beyond me.

My big New Orleans Fam (Photo John Alwert)
I’ve been a bridesmaid just about every year for the past decade so I thought I would just whip this wedding up in no time. But I had a typical Catholic, large New Orleans family wedding with many many out-of-town guests also from Tyson’s native Colorado and our former home California, where Tyson and I met. The whole thing was much more time-consuming than I thought, thank God for my mother and her planning techniques…
Tip: Our website www.MelanieAndTyson.com helped tremendously for traveling guests. (Wedding website are usually very easy to create and many are free)
Here’s some of the WDSU Gang (Roop introduced us for the first time)

Ty and me with early morning friends Roop Raj, Ken Jones, Vicky Prunty (Photo Courtesy John Alwert Photography)
Anyway, I have to share this with you… I wasn’t that picky about my vendors. It really came down to scheduling first since we selected the date before anything, and recommendations second. But my photographer John Alwert was AMAZING and made everything so easy for all of us. I asked him to be bossy and have fun- and he did well beyond belief! And true to New Orleans, it’s a family affair with his son Scott directing the videography, and his other son Andy on the candid shots (like this one here of our morning gang).

Tys and me with WDSU Gang Randi Rousseau, Travers Mackel, Greg Shepperd, Fletcher Mackel (Photo Courtesy John Alwert Photography)
And- Mr. Gene Capdeboscq- what a class act! Capdeboscq Catering, another incredible vendor for us, is also a family business. Turns out I went to elementary school with Mr. Gene’s granddaughter Angela (you know how it is here). After 34 years in business Mr. Gene still conducts wonderful taste testing in a full suit, serving wine and delicious foods to select. We had a blast! They were easy to work with, and organized beyond belief. Ms. Joyce made sure we ate well, and she packed food for the horse and buggy after:)
Oh, and our band Alley Cats… So entertaining! Tyson’s long-time friends James and Kate Schlatter in Denver actually picked our band for our New Orleans wedding! They happen to be good friends with the lead singer Brett Thomassie and have been bragging about their New Orleans friends and the Alley Cats since I met them. The only complaint I have is ”Sweet Home Colorado” was louder by the crowd than ”Sweet Home Louisiana!” But Brett was a blast, came down in the crowd, and I don’t mind mentioning he is quite easy on the eyes
You have my word I have not gotten nor are getting any ‘benefits’ for my words – I just wanted to pass on my experience to you because I know these decisions are very difficult for many brides. I’ve heard some real horror stories, and not everything was easy for us either so I wanted to pass on what helped to make our day.

Our Wedding Party (Photo Courtesy John Alwert Photography)
SellTheBride.com reports during an average 13 month engagement (ugh, we did it in 6 1/2), eight hours a week are spent planning, and 48% of brides wish they can take a leave of absence from work to be able to plan their wedding on a full time basis. Wouldn’t that be nice…
In 2009, The Wedding Report estimates the average wedding cost to be between $21,000 and $25,000… not exactly chump change, but a number that is slowly decreasing in the midst of the economic recession. If you’re looking for creative ways to save money in a wedding, you might find this as interesting as I did. A Colorodo couple explains how they got married for $2,000!
Some other interesting links I have come across not connected to the popular “Knot” or “Wedding Channel” websites include: Top 10 Bridal Scams to Avoid , Should You Buy Wedding Inurance? , www.theWeddingReport.com

And, if you can swing it… a “spa morning for the bridesmaids” is the way to go on wedding day. Instead of a traditional bridesmaid tea, my mother hosted one at Spa Atlantis on Gravier. For groups they do chocolate fountains and champagne, yum… We also had our hair and makeup done there by Mindy Laborie from The Cut Hair Salon on Vets. It was the perfect relaxing ladies time before the whirlwind began.

Tyson & Melanie Shinaut
Feel free to share your feedback, I’d love to hear it. Happy Planning!
For me things are finally back to normal…
~Melanie Hebert Shinaut